I love him but I dont like him to be putting his nose into every little detail. You are pretty the way you are and you should stay that way, as no guy has the right to play mind games with you. He gets what he wants by playing your emotions and making you feel guilty for something. Look people, the time and place for mindgames is either very early on when your first interested and feeling each other out, or in causal sex, fuck buddy, fling, summer romance, throw away type relations where the stakes are low because the relationships are transitory and disposable. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. I was reading your list to see if I missed anything, being that I dismissed him this week before seeing him again.
I blocked all means of contact as I don't like liars and I do believe he is a liar. He might tell you how she loved his hobbies or did that special something in bed. He wants you in his life, sure, but he doesn't want you to be the only one, and he might even be seeing other girls, too. Instead of apologizing, he blames you for putting it too close to the edge of the shelf. So, we all have mind games that we play and these are just a few of the mind games that women play on men.
Part of what men judge attraction is your ability to respond to them. If you try to be open and honest and talk to him in a way that shows you still love him, but will no longer tolerate the mind games he wants to play, he will surely change the errors of his ways and relent. The earlier you do that, the better for you. But it is how it rolls - who is the dominant and who is not or in some aspects one is Alpha other is Beta and vice versa. And as a woman, we need to make sure that a relationship never feels like an obligation to a man. If this happens to you, you can be sure he's watching your frustration build.
Define it yourself and let it go. If a man is engaging in this type of psychological warfare, there are many ways he could he could go about it. As you might imagine, I didn't do to well in class. Is he trying to guilt you into saying yes? Nobody needs a coward as a mate. I like to call this the jealousy game.
Most mature men perfectly get that and are not afraid of obligations, provided that they are getting the benefits. Narcissistic men tend to seek out partners who are easily dominated and controlled. The aggression may not only be directed at you, but also at everybody nearby, creating an atmosphere of fear. You may notice that you have fallen victim to a couple of these at some point in your dating life. Why won't he just man up and admit how he feels? Think of it this way: Maybe he is trying to see how much you needed him or how much you will miss him if he is no longer there. A guy like this will use mind games on a girl for her connections, her house, or even her willingness to do anything he wants. A guy who can't text properly is totally useless to you in terms of future boyfriend material.
It starts at the very first moment his eyes catch you. Only give your heart to those who respect you and are worthy of it. However, that is still up for discussion because playing mind games suggests duplicity and dishonesty. Like we must accommodate this type of bullshit. Meaning that he's going to randomly bring up the future that you two could have together. This time after days of nothing from him suddenly a hello. But if he is constantly disappointing you, going back on promises, seems to only more interested in himself than in you or others , is evasive about his life and his goals, or you just plain don't trust him -- then he may be playing mind games with you.
Besides he said he was married too! He blew hot and cold so many times,cold phases much longer and constantly making me feel ignored, guilty by making disappointing faces at me. Avoid dates at home until you've had several dates in public to see how serious a man is about pursuing you. Well, the obvious one is if he is avoiding you and your calls. Women are bad to play this game too. Don't let yourself be played by some douche who's using mind games to control you. Remember, the two of them broke up for a reason. He is interested to know if you can actually think for yourself and discern the truth by separating the facts from the chaff of any circulating rumors you might hear about him.
Imagine the ego boost of texting with a bunch of single gals. He asked if I was married, I said yes and he asked if I had children and I opened up and said I was struggling with that in my marriage. Are you legally required to give this person the information? Sometimes you just have to leave things in time hands to see what it will do with them, the people who been played on like myself, should not forget to live life. Guess who the women rated as more highly attractive? My advice is never to panic or overreact. Generally, men and women play mind games because they think it will make the other more interested, or they are simply not in a mature place in life to carry on with an adult relationship.