Just from your description, I wouldn't assume he has a crush on her. I'm glad you've found an answer to this and that you have made a decision. You're not the one who has changed, she has. Her's with you so he obviously fancies you too. Well I can admit we would go some days with out talking well today we went out to eat and she wanted to talk. It's a stronger and more seductive feeling than most we experience in life.
There are many things that you can do immediately to get her to feel differently and there are also many things that you can do, which take a bit more effort. Be honest without chasing, and then go get yourself a different girl s. If she is meant to be with you in time, and you haven't been a jerk to her, well. Then again she told me she carpools, but I didn't find out if she carpooled with her boyfriend or just a friend. But what if she has a boyfriend? He would also always defend her to me.
He wrote how good it was to see her and how he thinks that she is a great person. We're both comfortable with each other and know each other well enough to talk about anything, including nsfw stuff. Most of the guys who want to save a girl from a bad boyfriend are the type who think that the secret to success with women is to be really nice to a woman and treat her like a princess all the time. And God dammit, why are all the good ones taken? I promised her no matter what I'd be her friend, stupid promise maybe but I still made it. That boyfriend eventually turned into her husband, and now it feels like we're not even friends anymore. I was all set to leave it be, I wanted her to be happy even if I don't feel he is right for her.
I've never met a woman I could trust even half as much as my best bud who I've been good friends with for 15 years. Or you could go for broke, try for it all in one night — just take her out and use your charisma to get her so attracted to you and aroused by you that in the heat of the moment she acts on those emotions. What you need to do is begin making serious changes and then let her see that. She wanted you to become a bigger and better man, instead of hiding from your true potential as a man behind her and the relationship. Sure, it sucks that they're a packaged deal when you're really craving your solo time with her, but it's better to see her than to not see her at all. Some friendships are only meant to be for a short period of time, even if they were the greatest. She will then feel more attracted to him.
It really is possible to get another chance with your ex girlfriend. I know her for years but I was in a relationship with someone else that I broke up months ago. She is either stupid or sneaky or both to be telling you the private business between her and her boyfriend. You can be the guy who gets all the girls or who gets the girl he wants, but you have to know when you interact with her in person. I'll do two females, but not one female, and then she'll have another dude on the side. Question is, why should that matter? Nope feelings really only started months after.
Hopefully things will workout in your favor! And remember, gentlemen will keep fighting for his lady. I broke my own rule falling for someone in a relationship, worse yet shes a great friend. She is happy with her boyfriend. For her it is a big life decision that cant be easily reverted once done. . Well, if you guys aren't good friends I suggest you just tell her how you feel--women and human beings in general value honesty and it's actually quite attractive. Your example was funny to me -- she can't return a text because she had a bad childhood? Well hey, you got some ego validation from the flirting while it was happening, you manned-up and asked her out when the time was right, and you got an answer.
Because after being knocked down. A guy can't really be best friends with a girl within a month or two. Women are more attracted to guys who have other women interested in them. What do you think of that blonde by the bar? It's different, all I can hope for is that if she did leave her boyfriend for me, then I would hope her excuse wasn't all because of me. Thanks guys, I needed a impartial 3rd party.
She started to push for answers and asked right out if it was cause I liked her, so I said yes. I cringed but then started dancing with some other guy. But she is not going to confess that to you because if she confesses that it means that she is knowingly cheating on her current boyfriend and she would be acknowledging it to her own conscience that way. I had a feeling my friends were more on my side cause they aren't as close to her. At the point of knowing this if he still keeps treating her like that then she will automatically leave him some girls like me like their boyfriend to display some possessiveness.
If you think that he is better than you, it will come across in your body language, conversation, vibe, etc and your ex girlfriend will pick up on it. Just be honest about how you feel about it. Then she mentions that he drinks often, sometimes even drives while drunk with her in the car, I start feel angry. But I know that isn't how you feel. I need your help she is really my first love since high school. I'm not sure if I should confront her about it next time I drive her home. Yes, she also knows the bad points, but she can and will begin to feel differently about you when show her that the things that caused her to break up with you have now dramatically changed.
But then she has a boyfriend, and she knows that I know she has a boyfriend. By treating all women with respect and kindness will make you a much more attractive human. Because Gentleman has eyes only for his lady. I learned how this couple met, where they went on their first dates, how they developed such a trusting relationship lots of prior experience , and how they work on it every day. You love your ex girlfriend, but she has a boyfriend and you may feel like you have to sit around on the sidelines waiting and hoping for another chance with her. You break them up by either actively being a douchebag against him or you just portray yourself as a better guy. You might spend the entire time you're with her looking over your shoulder then.